Dating

I want to make something a little bit more clear about my interest in dating sites. I made a post to find out about others experiences on match.com or any other dating sites. I want to make a comparison with the other dating sites that I am on. This does not reflect upon anyone that I have dated before Nor currently dating. I am not desperate to find someone nor do I want to be with just anyone. I am quite particular. I know this about me. I’ve had some really good experiences thus far on the dating scene and some not so great. I am finding that dating these days is totally different than dating when I was young. I like being single, or at least I don’t mind it. If I am single for the rest of my life, so be it. I am a right and left brained person, a deep thinker, and have an engineering thought processing and practical brain. I am only attracted to someone of the same manner. Not all but most men that I have met are more concerned with what I can do for them sexually with no bother to ask what I may be looking for. Holding the door is a nice gesture, but that went out the door so to speak with hoop dresses. Since women don’t have their hands full of skirt anymore they can pretty much do that themselves. I’ve driven hours to meet someone for a date and was wasn’t even asked if I would like some gas money to put in my  gas hog SUV. I would hold the doors for you if you just merely asked me if I wanted gas money to make the long trip. ( my little rant LOL) In my eyes being Gallant is not opening the doors for a woman. Being Gallant is being a gentleman period. If you want a woman to want only you, then you must separate yourself from the others. What attributes do you have that she could be attracted to? What would make her want to spend the rest of her life, or at least a good chunk of it, with only you? This goes for women as well. I do my best to try to maintain A Cut Above existence. Of course this limits perspectives however I will not live my life any other way and I hope the gentleman that Finds Me appreciates my standards and uniqueness. In closing I just want to say. If you are looking for sex, go out and buy it. If you’re looking for love open up her heart not her zipper.

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