“What she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her.”
Is this really true?
I try to think about the three people involved surrounding this statement.
The first being the boyfriend or husband who has obviously shared some dialog with “the new girl” about having some type of sexual encounter. Possibly he has told the “New Girl” that he is unfulfilled in his current relationship or that it wouldn’t matter to his girlfriend/wife if he were to stray.
Then the “New Girl” utters those fatal words.
“What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her.”
You have to stop and think. Who is the person behind these words?
Does this girl justify her behavior because she is convinced the man deserves better?
Finally we have the girlfriend/wife.
She believes her “Boyfriend/Husband when he proclaims to love her and not want anyone else.
They say that ignorance is bliss.
If ignorance is truly bliss, then maybe what she doesn’t know really wont hurt her.
But what if she does know?
There are obvious choices the man could have made that could have had a less devistating impact on his “true love”. He could have expressed his desire to be with other women to her have persuaded a mutual dating scenario. He could have worked on making there relationship fulfilling, or explored his fidelity issues and sought help for his mental status.
The “New Girl” also had plenty of choices. If the man truly did deserve better as the girl thought, “Better” wasn’t the direction he was heading.
It seems to me that this girl may have some issues that need attending to as well.
It’s hard to imagine what history this girl has been through to make her actions seem ok in her own eyes.
Maybe her compiled poor choices or unfulfilled life has led her down a path of immaturity and lack of honor and self love.
It is hard to believe that with all the choices that could have been made, there was only one person who wasn’t considered in the decision making process.
The “One” who was effected the most…….
The “One” who “Wasn’t” hurt because she “Doesn’t” know”.
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